Many women crave the protection of men. Now why exactly? Well maybe some professor of anthropology would have some sort of primitive survival explanation. Protection from what, you ask? You name it. Do you know how hard and scary it is to be a woman out there on your own? Do you know the things that can happen to women if no one is looking out for them? I'm making women sound too much like victims, and that's not right. But to feel protected is to feel loved. It means the man gives a damn about what happens to you. It may mean he's furious you come home at 9pm instead of 6pm when he was expecting you home. That's a gift. To have someone worried about you and what the hell happens to you. In my own heart a man is fiercely protective. Two hundred years ago, sometimes it was nothing more than protecting the woman's honor; for example, someone badmouths her and husband thrashes the man who did so. Would I be protective of my man? Sure, but in a more feminine way: if he were ill, if he were hungry, if he were tired, if his feet ached, I would meet his needs; I would protect his reputation in public with my life. Does this make any sense? You protect your man by making sure his every need is met, without being a doormat, just out of love. And in return a man gives so much back.